Sis & Hubs had their party last weekend, I mentioned. It was at their home, they ran the show, and I just helped with some tabletop styling and flowers and greeted guests. It’s interesting to me, we spent the first dozen years of our lives together, eating mac & cheese, spaghetti casserole, meatloaf and tuna casserole together. Our early food years resembled many other families in the US, I think….I was not at all into food as a child; this is me at right and my baby Sis Jacquie at right; Cap’n Crunch or Wheat Chex made made me happy back then….
At some point, everyone comes into their own and creates their own experiences. I spent 14 years in New York City and have eaten high and low, eating NYC restaurant food for breakfast lunch and dinner….exclusively. I said that if I never ate out again in my lifetime, I would be happy. Except La Grenouille….please let me eat here again…..
Add in Paris and Tokyo and London and Beaune and rural France….yeah…I am a rather unapologetic foodie. I like good food. Why eat bad food? I am conditioned…..but I am also tolerant….
I suggested a few alternatives to Sis’ favorite caterer, but in the end she went with what she knows, and I totally get that. She loves the idea of food “stations”…the first, braised beef and onions on mashed potatoes, in a (plastic) martini glass~
Curry chicken and noodles (left) and pork stir fry (right) served in Chinese take-out boxes with chopsticks~
Two salads at the next station~
I could not tell the two salads apart, and they had no salt…no taste….
The dessert station was a scoop of vanilla ice cream, two donut holes, whipped cream from the can and a generous dollop of chocolate sauce~ I hope the latex gloves are a catering requirement….they sort of spoil it for me…
It was a very hot day, and the food stations and bar let everyone mingle, wander around the yard and eat at their own pace. Beer and ice cream sundaes? I guess they go together. I enjoyed greeting guests in the kitchen while watching everyone make their way around the food & drink.
This is perhaps a case of Know Thy Audience. Everyone LOVED the food and ate it up! Sis was SO happy!! On the other hand, Dad had a taste of it all and refused to eat any more; worse, said he would not even feed the leftovers to Biscuit. Right to the garbage, he said….We have a debate underway…Other party ideas to follow this week….
Sounds like a fun day.
ReplyDeleteI smiled at your father refusing to eat the meal. He must be selective.
I must say I always prefer something home cooked, no matter how simple, to a catered event.
Have a great week
Helen xx
I love your food show here! Good food is the best! :)
ReplyDeleteHugs,
I have a smile on my reading between the lines - perhaps I have zoomed off on a tangent? Got my I pad back from Switzerland yesterday so we may finally get to talk!
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Andrea thank you so much for the cheering call last night!
ReplyDeleteI will say this....you have truly spoiled your parents, more than any loving caretaker ever.I can't wait to hear what you are planning for your Brother's stay!
I am having an amazing Giveaway of Plush Pumpkins from Love Feast!
xoxo
Karena
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How can a father be that rude to his daughter? If it were my party, he would not be invited next time. Being a relative doesn't give one license to act rudely.
ReplyDeleteSallie, it was a corporate event, so he wasn't invited, but he still didn't like the food! Sis is cooking for him/us on Saturday, we will see what he thinks of the food then....
DeleteThis makes me a tad nervous to have you over to dinner. It won't be La Grenouille, but my husband is a good cook!
ReplyDeleteThe party looked FUN.
Mary Ann
Your dad just cracks me up! Hope mom had a nice visit. Sweet Boy and I will be heading to Disneyland soon.
ReplyDeleteI haven't had Cap'n Crunch in decades...what a memory! I'm with you...better to eat good food but these days, it's mostly cheese and crackers. Just to keep body and soul together.
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